This is one of those goals I think most people can understand. Originally, I added it because I was having a hard time with some of my friends & family, but surprisingly I have been actually succeeding! I have a couple of friends who I used to be really close to. We did pretty much everything together, and were always there for each other. In the past few years however, it has become more of a one-way street than anything else.
They’re still cool & all, but it seems like we have different opinions now of what makes a good friend. It’s too bad, but I think there’s a point at which the friendship just becomes a drain. I’ve got too much going on right now to deal with bad relationships. I made it clear to each of them (very subtly), that I didn’t really want to be around them right now. I feel bad, but I was so sick & tired of their bullsh*t that it’s worth the guilt. When it comes to family however, I haven’t really gotten very far. Unfortunately I can’t just get rid of them the same way.
