karateper

family member:
use to call me 4 times a week to complain about someone in her life. That got emotionally draining for me. All the negativity. I decided to change my phone #. The last straw with me was an email basically insulting me. and No apology for it even though I said it hurt me. I do not deserve to be treated bad.

X bridezilla friend:
She asked me to be in her wedding and i accepted but only to find out that her maid of honor was someone whom I do NOT get along with at all. So almost a year before wedding I backed out gracefully because problems starting happening already w/ maid of honor and myself. Only to get an ultimatum on the friendship. Either be in my wedding or your not my friend anymore. I decided not to be in the wedding regardless and decided not to be friends w/ her ever again. Even though, I receive emails every now and then from her wanting to be friends again and saying sorry. Too bad. If someone is willing to issue an ultimatum, then they better live w/ the consequences! I deserve better friends than that!

The best thing that has happened to me over the last 2 yrs was the new friendships I’ve gained by joining yahoo social groups to meet new friends! new positive, friendly and awesome friends I’ve met!!! I feel so lucky!