Get married....and STAY married

I want nothing more than to set an example of a hard working loving marriage.

We are reading a book called Night Light by Shirley and James Dobson.
It is a nightly devotional and we are 9 weeks into the book.

We read it every night together and end in prayer together, I love it.

Who doesn’t want to find that special someone to share the rest of your life with?

I wanna be the old couple you see together that is so comfortable with each other that spent most of their life with each other. I want to marry someone who is going to love me for me and that I will love forever. I feel like in today’s world there is too much pressure to just give up when a marriage isn’t going the right way. I hope I haven’t messed up.

I want to marry my best friend, and this has become extremely hard for me. It’s brought me to a big turning point in my life. I’ve known this person since I was 10 years old. We went to elementary school, jr high/high school, and college together. We really didn’t become close until college. He really turned into my best friend. I tell him everything about me, we spend all our time together and speak and see each other everyday and I guess I fell in love with him. I always wanted to be with someone that I could just be happy with every day. I didn’t want it to be about sex, or looks (even though i think he’s the hottest thing since sliced bread), or anything else. I just want it to be about us.

Now it’s hard for me. One night we were together and we did it hehe.. and I thought that was it. For a while we were together but he said he didn’t want it to mess up our friendship and he wasn’t ready for a commitment.. So I accepted it. Then I found out that I was pregnant. I’m still pregnant and things are great now.. It has really tested our friendship, and even now he still doesn’t want anything more than friends and that kills me, but I accept it. And I just pray that one day if it’s not him that is supposed to love me that I will eventually find that one person for me. But I don’t know who could make me happier than him. I just want our son to know that even though we aren’t together that we do love and care about each other, even as friends. And that we never regretted what happened between us. Any advice!? Move on or wait!? IDK!

i wanna fall in love. REAL love. i want that to stay. i don’t believe in divorce unless (you get cheated, beaten). I would very much to achieve this goal.

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Is the date we have decided on and trust me I cant wait!! Finally I will be married and I am absolutely not getting divorced. I promised myself that much.

It’s so sad and scary to see all of the affairs on television in married couples. I hope real love isn’t so breakable. It makes it hard to trust anyone at all when you hear all of the divorce stuff and such. I want to be sure I marry the right person.

29 months isn’t that long, but I know we’ll make it.

the key to a good marriage: honest and sometimes awkward communication no matter what.

This won’t work anymore.

In light of “de-cluttering” my list of goals, I’m putting this on the shelf until next year. My very simple wedding isn’t until Dec. 2009 anyway… So why stress over it now?

Ok goal, I’ll hook up with you next summer!

My fiance has a few fears about staying married. Apparently divorce “runs in the family”. I’m not worried, but its my goal