get over jealousy

I’ve got to deal with feelings of envy and jealousy

I have such a wonderful boyfriend… but… I just have this issue, I don’t want to trust him completely… I want to expect the worst, and his sweetness and friendliness makes him so attractive. That I am afraid that he will be taken by someone else.

okayy.
jealousy..
i have never been able to trust. i mean no one.
i was dating a guy for a year and 3 months and he did something extremly bad, almost put in jail for it. cheated on me very second weekend and i think thats whats put me off most.
im now dating this guy, who is really sweet, very talented and treats me like his girl, and his best friend at the same time.
but then he does the same thing to others..
i have a jealosy problem.
i cant even stand him talking at a girl, let alone look at her.
i wish him or someone knew how i feel.
its not a big problem but i just need to be able to have some trust. because if i keep doing this it wont only destroy my relationship. but slowly destroy me. inside and out.
please can someone help me before i go insane.
thank you.

This has been eating away at me for a long time and it will probably be one of the hardest things to do. I’m dating someone who is completely innocent and amazing to me in every way. He is always there for me, and he always tries to understand me but i feel like he is almost paying for the mistakes of my past lovers because of the way they broke my trust (cheating on me, lying to me etc)
I would really just like to relieve myself and more importantly his feeling of a black cloud always around our heads because most of our issues result from the fact that i have a problem trusting him.

I think this will be my hardest goal. I know that jealousy destroys relationships, that it hurts more than helps…and I know that the possibility of losing him increases everyday as my jealousy also increases. I believe that he loves me but yet I can’t seem to get them out of my head. It hurts more than you could ever imagine… just seeing those 4 girls breaks my heart in two. He deserves so much better than someone that cannot get jealousy.

It is the most important thing in my life right now to get over this jealousy. He’s amazing in every single way and deserves for me to trust and love more than be jealous.