That’s how long I’ve known my crush, and I’ve had a crush on him since about fifth grade. I’m now in the ninth grade, and we are good friends and have two classes together. The only problem is that my crush has recently been diagnosed with something called Reflex Sympathetic Disorder, and has been out of school for the past three weeks. Being the only one who remembers his phone number, I am regularly asked to call to check up on him (He’s had to undergo two surgeries this week, and since the pain has spread he is now off of crutches and in a wheelchair). I know for sure that he is currently single and that he wouldn’t mind going out with me (He flirts with me all the time, and when taking a survey on Facebook listed me as “attractive”, “friend”, and “dateable”, among other things). I’m just not sure now would be a great time to ask him out, although I might not have a choice in the future.
How to ask my crush out
How I did it: Well, it was Halloween and a friend of mine had come over for trick-or-treating. So he (my crush) was supposed to come trick-or-treating with us, but couldn't because he was asked to volunteer at his church last minute. So, because my cell phone was dead, he texted my friend and told her to tell me that he couldn't make it. My friend gave me the phone, and I told him that that was fine and did he maybe want to go out for lunch Sunday, and he said yes! :D
After leaving the restaurant, he posted on Facebook saying he had a great time, and called me to ask if I wanted to meet up again for lunch. :D Awesomeness.
Lessons & tips: Don't let the moment pass you by. If an oppurtunity comes, by all means take it.
Be flexible. (And this won't take away the bold now, ack!) If your guy can't go out that day or has to cancel, it's not necessarily a sign of "I'm not interested, go away."
Be yourself. Just try it. If things work out, you'll be so glad you weren't being all superficial.
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i asked her out and now she is all creped out with me and now i just want our freindship back…...only do this goal if she truely shows the love back…..im now really upset that i could creep her out so badly
Well there’s a couple girls who I think is TOTALLY HOT and super cool, but I don’t know which one to pick and I want you to tell me who I should ask out.
1. Kendall-She’s hot, nice, cute, she loves American Idol and I love American Idol, she wants to audition and I want to audition, she mouthed out she loved me or to this other guy, she’s loves to sing and dance, and I love to sing and dance, but the thing is, since fifth grade, I have been to shy to ask her out without any other people talking to her, but I know we have the same likes. AND I LOVE HER!!!!!!! Also, I want to know what to ask her, but we’ve talked ALOT before!!!. My friend Michael who sat behind me in 3rd period said that she liked me.
2. Juliette-She’s REALLY cute, she’s hot, you know what she’s a celebrity, and her name is Juliette Goglia, and she’s in the eighth grade, and i have a crush on her.
3. Felicia-She’s SUPER HOT, and she was in my fifth grade class, but I NEVER talked to her in person, but she has a really weird boyfriend named Philip who is like the class clown, and I’m like the shy, funny, nice, cute, slightly overweight kid, who doesn’t have glasses. THANKFULLY!!!! But, I have a crush on her.
4. Devan-She’s pure hotness!!!! She loves American Idol, and is obsessed with it, like I am. I don’t know if she likes me, and we barely see eachother in school, but, yet, again she was in my fith grade class.
5. Emilia-She’s cute, my mom even thinks she’s cute, and my mom’s not a lesbian, and neither am I. One of my friend said that she might have a crush on me, so I tried to get her into my mind.
That’s pretty much everything!!!
i haven’t ever asked any of my crushes out I’m to shy i don’t know what they will think of me if i ask them out they might hate me they might think I’m a dork I’m just too scared they have to make the first move
Katie R November has reached, once again.
Since the original crush I did this goal over, I had a boyfriend of six months. Things went downhill because I wasn’t being treated right. I met this other great guy, he is so great…I really want to go out with him. I’m going to try accomplishing this goal but definitely NOT right away because I’ve only known him a month :].
Just wanted to give everyone a heads up that this goal has come back into use!
I told my crush I liked him he was ok with it,i made two notes that asked him if he liked me.He didn’t answer the first one..but said idk first for the second one,then my best friend asked him in person she said he said maybe first then yes!!! I have no clue what to do.
Lisa is relaxing. :)
I sent a letter to Alex explaining how I feel about him. So you you could say that I’ve asked him out, in a way. :)
Lisa is relaxing. :)
ask my crush, Alex, out. After six months of obsessing about him, I think it’s about time I did. I’ve made a CD which I’m sending to him, which should get the point across about how I feel.
The only major problem is that I finished school on Friday, after my last GCSE exam, and he’s a year below me. How am I supposed to ask him out now???
I nearly did on Thursday, though. He was talking to me at the end of registration, and as he went on his way to English, I had the urge to scream “I love you!” at him – that was one of many times I’ve had an urge to do that – but I didn’t. :(
God, I hate being shy sometimes.
She is in a relationship with a guy that’s no good for her. They’ve broken up, but it appears they are still together, so it’s unclear her current status. Next time I talk to her I’ll find out, if she is still with him, I’ll mak my feeling known to her, if not I’ll do the same and see if she will take me.
ive been to chicken to ask her out where sort of freinds but i want more
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“So when the person is kind of a stranger, like a barista at your fave coffee place, what's a good way to approach them?”
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