Love without fear

For me, love without fear means to fully trust the person who I love and care. I did it once so I believe that I can do it again someday. Now I just have to fix my heart and mind first then I have to be prepared for the next one. Through this process I think I will be stronger, wiser, kinder and nicer to people and myself. I might love myself without fear again and I need to trust myself first, then I can do the same to other people again.

I have learned so much from my current relationship. Mostly about myself but it is truly a “must” for those who want to love without fear. It is absolutely necessary to know your self because you are totally responsible for your reaction to everything and everybody. Me, I am reactionary, so what this means is that I react to my environment and those who exist in it.
So since I am in total control of of choosing whether or not to fear that which presents itself.

It’s not that I don’t love people, or let them in. It just takes me a long time to warm up to them. I fear getting hurt, just like everyone else I guess. The problem is that I usually end up being the one who hurts myself.

Love doesn’t automatically give you the ability to understand everyone, which is necessary sometimes to get positive results. A leap of faith is often required of you. Things that don’t work out, build character. I struggle almost everyday protecting my heart. I love too much, and too deep. It’s ok, it’s my nature.

I think I’ve always known since the day I met him that we were meant to be together. Words can’t describe how amazing he is and makes me feel. He accepts me for me and I feel so comfortable around him. This weekend we went on a mini-vacation and it brought us even closer. He is truely my best friend and I’ll always love him. If our relationship ever failed, I know I would still have a friend for life. I love you, Jeromy.

that this is the most accurate name for my goal. My main issue these days is that the boyfriend wants to move forward: i.e. get married or at least move in together. But I’m recently divorced (2 years) and although he’s divorced as well, it’s been 8 years. I still feel like I’m reestablishing myself and treasuring my independence. He’s very understanding but I’m afraid after another year (it’s been 14 months) he won’t still be understanding. Plus, the situation is logistically so incredibly ideal: we both own our own houses only 6 minutes apart. Why mess with success, right? But I’m secretly afraid to end up in another bad marriage. I need to have more faith in myself and only time will tell what is the right thing to do.

Ha. So I had this dream that my boyfriend of over a year (who loves animals) was secretly collecting stray dogs and selling them to a medical lab in Michigan. I felt so blindsided!
Fear gets you in unexpected ways….

Everyday I am feeling better about giving my love with no expectations. This is the only way you can love without fear…..

im pretty scared of having my heart hurt, i once felt that kind of pain when i was very young and it has scarred me ever since so i still have my wall up and feel i have not enjoyed the love i have been offered as much as i could have and in the end let it go.

This is my desire, but after whatever I’m going through, I doubt that it’ll happen. I’m not saying that I won’t love again. Of course I will. But will I love without fear? It has nothing to do with confidence, like, I’m afraid to be left or I’m afraid to be cheated on. From my experience, even the most ridiculous things happen in life, so I don’t cut out anything. No matter how confident or attractive or smart or interesting or unique I am, a guy can get something in his sick head & do things that even he might regret later. But he still did it. I’m not afraid of a guy leaving or any other things. I just don’t want to go through this moment. If he leaves, fine. But that moment of change & pain is just annoying. And I will always have that on the back of my mind that things happen. I don’t want any more things to happen, at least not in relationships, so I’m trying to avoid it. Yes, I know, it’s silly, I know it’s a normal reaction & that one day a person comes to my life & proves me wrong… bla bla bla! Whatever happens in the future isn’t here yet, so right now I just wish I could erase some of my memories or actually, no, I don’t want to erase anything. I want to get so strong & mature that I will never be afraid of anything. I’ll just have a totally different perception of those things. Well, I better get started on my work then. Read some New Age literature, meditate, expand my vision of life. Lol